Monday, November 17, 2008

New Moran

Apparantly when I'm quiet for a while I've been up to something. And, it also appears that I can't keep a secret and post about anything else at all. Thus the long silence. This post is very hard for me to publish. I have been going around and around in my mind for weeks now about this, but I felt suddenly like there is no time like the present.

It appears there is going to be a New Moran...should be here by early June 2009!
For those of you who are not familiar with our history, Jason and I have had 4 miscarriages in the past 6 1/2 years. Growing our family has not come easily for us. In fact, it has been down right cruel most of the time. We have our beautiful 5 year old little girl, who is the absolute light of our lives. She has brought us much happiness throughout this very trying journey. We have always wanted a house full of kids, and for several years we thought that would be impossible. But, like we've always known...God is in control of this and every situation in our lives. He has allowed us the opportunity to become pregnant many times, but we've lost so many.

Our prayer is that this time is different. I am currently 11 1/2 weeks...this is farther than we've ever made it, except for with Bayli. I have always miscarried between 6-9 weeks. So, in our hearts and minds, we've crossed a major hurdle. Of course, we are not out of the woods, medically speaking, for another 2 weeks. But, we chose a long time ago to put our faith in God...so we have made a choice to believe that this life will make it to term. However, I must admit that my heart and mind constantly battle each other. What I know to be true vs what I fear might happen...it is a constant struggle. I have to constantly remain in prayer and have several scriptures that I've posted around me so that I can refer to them as necessary.

Please join us in praying for this little life. Please surround us in prayer as we go through this pregnancy. Medically, there are some issues that we are addressing in order to try to keep life going...I am on 2 shots of heparin daily in addition to a lot of oral medicine. To say that my body is tired and is going through a lot is an understatement. We've already been advised that if we are able to make it to term, this should be our last pregnancy. Even though that isn't our plan, we'll take it and we will consider ourselves blessed!

You might be asking how this affects the adoption. Well, it doesn't. We are still waiting and will likely be waiting for several more years. We are keeping up with our paperwork in order to keep everything current. So, we will welcome that baby with open arms when the time comes also.

Love you guys...all 2 of you who read and follow our journey. :) Please keep us in your prayers! We are beginning to allow ourselves to get a little excited. Please don't misunderstand that comment. Of course we are excited, but we tend to guard our hearts; but God has been faithful and the longer that things have progressed, the more we are able to relax a little and even begin to plan a little bit about the future.
Oh, one more thing, Bayli still does not know about this. We have decided to tell her on Christmas morning. I found a cute "Big Sister" shirt that we are going to wrap up, along with a few other big sister related items. We are going to give this gift to her that she has waited so very long for! It will be a very special Christmas indeed!

Enjoy the ultrasound pics below.
The pic on the left was at 11 weeks- the arms and legs were just beginning to bud. He looked like a little "Teddy Graham"! The one on the right was last Friday. In 2 short weeks the arms and legs have fully developed as well as hands and feet. If you look closely you can see the little hand up by the mouth! We are so blessed and Praise God for the work He is doing! Praise God for life!




4 comments:

Jim, Darlene and Eli said...

I came to your blog by way of reading comments written on "Our Journey of Love" blog. I want you to know that I will start putting you and your baby in my daily prayers. My daughter (only child) is pregnant with my first grandchild. However, we found out at the first ultrasound on Thursday that God has not only blessed us with one child, but with two....twins. She is 10 weeks pregnant. Although this is her first pregnancy, we are feeling the same fear of something happening to one or both of the babies. As you, I am constantly searching for scriptures to help me get over some of my fears, so that I can enjoy this time more. Please remember us in your prayers. My daughter wanted to keep it a secret (afraid that something will happen) but, I wanted to tell everyone and anyone so that we could have as many people as possible praying for our babies. God bless you and your baby. Darlene

Erin said...

Praying for you, sweet friend!! May God bless you all BIGTIME!!!

The Herrera Family said...

Holly and Jason, CONGRATS on the new little one on the way. I have been praying for you and the baby since I read your blog. I looked forward to following the journey with you and your family and can't wait to see the new little one. This is going to be a very thankful Thanksgiving and A Blessed Christmas. Gongrats again and love and are praying for you.

Love Eddie, Sarah, Ethan and Lauren Herrera

jajbs said...

I am crying tears of joy with you! I have been praying since our phone call back a few months and wondering. You were on my heart HEAVY the past few days. I am so happy and will continue to keep you all in my prayers!

amanda